The Joy of Achievement (Without the Pain of Perfectionism)-…
- by Holly Burton
The Joy of Achievement (Without the Pain of Perfectionism)
You’ve finally reached the moment of truth. You take a last glance over your PowerPoint and realize you’ve achieved that most elusive of workplace victories: a pixel-perfect doc that doesn’t need any edits. This only happens once in every 100,000 working hours, and your hard work and dedication have finally landed you the big prize. Woo hoo!
Your boss throws you a ticker-tape parade. Mensa certifies you as a workplace genius (a new category they created in your honour!). Beyonce DMs you to ask how you managed to produce something even more profound than Lemonade. It’s good to be on top!
But let’s not talk about what it took to get here. The many late nights at the office. The anxiety-ridden sleepless nights. The irritable exchanges with your partner and kids when you had nothing left to give. The debates with your therapist about ‘What is perfectionism really, though? And could it be so bad if it’s the main thing that fuels all of your professional success?’
If only there was a way to get widespread cultural renown (or heck, just your boss’ attention for your next promotion) without working yourself into a pulp or running 24/7 critical commentary in your head!
Talk Outline:
This talk will focus on the intense mental load perfectionism takes – and how you can strive for excellence without overwhelming yourself. We’ll cover:
- How perfectionism wreaks havoc in your personal & professional life
- The unexpected professional upsides of perfectionism
- How healthy striving can let you have your high-achieving cake and eat it too
- An internal audit of the factors in your life that compel to push yourself beyond your limits
The goal of this talk is to help you find actionable strategies to get some breathing space while still achieving at a high level.
About Our Speaker
Elana Sures
Therapist
Elana Sures is a therapist and owner of Open Space Counselling, a clinic providing in person and virtual therapy with locations in Vancouver and North Vancouver. Under Elana’s vision and mentorship, Open Space Counselling focuses on helping women learn to strive and thrive without succumbing to self-criticism and burnout. This mission has helped thousands of women, partners and mothers find more presence, connection, and meaning in their lives
Location:
Location
Spare - 601 West Hastings, Suite 300, Vancouver, BC
Parking:
The closest public parking is two blocks away, between Waterfront Station and Steamworks (501-599 West Cordova St Parking).
Transit:
The nearest mass transit hub is two blocks away at Waterfront Station with access to the Canada Line, Expo Line, SeaBus & West Coast Express. Additional information about planning your trip via transit can be found in the Translink Trip Planner.
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